Whipped Buttercream Frosting {Best frosting ever!}

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Whipped Buttercream Frosting is the best frosting ever! It has the rich creaminess of a buttercream & the light, airy texture of a whipped cream frosting!

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This buttercream recipe pretty much blew my mind. I owe a big thank you to my other mother, Marilynn, for this recipe (She was married to my father, and “other mother” is more fitting than “step mom”). I’m not a big frosting person; buttercream and cream cheese frostings are usually just ok, and I can take them or leave them.

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I also tend to have trouble getting my powdered sugar incorporated into the buttercream. It just ends up being lumpy.Well, this buttercream frosting takes care of that because it uses (are you ready for this?) granulated sugar! Don’t worry – it’s not gritty at all. In fact, it has the texture of a light whipped cream with the flavor of a sweet, vanilla buttercream. It’s honestly the best frosting (buttercream or otherwise) that I’ve ever had.

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One note – to get the best flavor, you’ll want to use real butter and pure vanilla extract. This frosting recipe will frost a 3 layer cake or generously frost about 24 cupcakes. Also, you may want to check out my chocolate and cream cheese versions of this recipe.

Whipped Buttercream Frosting {Best frosting ever!}
  • 7 T. all-purpose flour
  • 1 ½ c. milk
  • 1 ½ T. pure vanilla extract
  • 1 ½ c. salted butter, at cool room temperature
  • 1 ½ c. granulated sugar
  • Pinch of salt
  1. In a small saucepan, whisk flour into milk and heat, stirring constantly, until it thickens. It will be the consistency of a thick pancake batter.
  2. Remove from heat and let it cool to room temperature.
  3. Stir in vanilla.
  4. While the mixture is cooling, cream the butter, sugar, and salt together until light and fluffy on medium high, about 5 minutes.
  5. Then add the completely cooled milk mixture.
  6. Beat it for about 5 minutes on medium-high to high until it looks like whipped cream. It may look separated at first, so keep beating it until it comes together and looks like a whipped cream.
Make sure that your butter isn't too warm! You want it to dent if you press it, but you don't want it to be so warm that it's melting.

Also, if you're using a hand mixer, beat it on high. This recipe work well with a stand mixer because it has the power to really whip the frosting (affiliate links).

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  1. Sarah says

    Have you ever tried this with a gluten free flour blend? I just gave it a go (using Pamela’s All Purpose GF Flour) and can’t seem to get the thickness I’m going to need for decorating. The taste is OUTSTANDING though, so I hope I can figure it out!

    • Rebecca says

      Yes I cook gluten free and found cornstarch to be your best bet! The gf flour isn’t strong enough and if you add more flour it will taste like flour. I like this one so much better than powdered sugar buttercream!!

  2. Avery says

    What did you mean by mix on medium high and high?
    Also, could I add food coloring at the end or would that affect the taste?

    • says

      Depending on the power of the mixer that you’re using, you’d need to beat on medium-high or high. I would suggest a higher setting if you’re unsure. I’m not sure! It might. I have heard that people have had good luck using a little gel food coloring, but I haven’t tried it myself.

  3. Crystal H says

    Thank you sooooo much for this reciepe!! I have been using it for about a year now and it’s the only one I use (besides your other flavor variations of this, of course) I am fairly new to cake decorating, but to me taste matters way more than looks! I am making my sisters wedding cake for her and did a practice run today. This frosting holds up real nicely and works great to make flowers and such. I guess well see how it holds up a 3 teir cake when the day comes! Lol I’m so excited for everyone to try this frosting! 😀

  4. Catherine says

    I have never been a fan of buttercream frosting, but I decided to give this a try. I had made a lemon cake, only to find that I had no confectioner’s sugar for a glaze. It seemed a bit much to run to the store only for some powdered sugar, considering I had made the cake on a whim (my sweet tooth nags me at unexpected times!) from an expired boxed cake mix in the back of my pantry. So I looked up icing recipes made using granulated sugar. Let me tell you, this is FABULOUS! What a pleasant surprise. I will definitely be saving this recipe for future, more thought-out occasions.

    • says

      Haha! I have the same sort of sweet tooth! I’m so glad that you liked the frosting! Thanks for taking the time to come back and leave a comment. =)

  5. PC Goh says

    Awesome…I tried it for the first time and it turned out better than my expectation. It’s smooth (not grainy) and not too sweet and firm enough to pipe on cupcakes. However, I modified the recipe by using half all purpose flour and half corn flour. Thank you Kate!

  6. simisola says

    Wow!!!, very delicious buttercream recipe!!! I was skeptical about using flour and milk batter to make buttercream but, it turned out amazing!!!…..thanks so much kate for sharing this recipe. Its my all time favorite now!!!

  7. Isabella says

    Hi Kate. Do you have a video of this whipped buttercream? If so, can you send me a link to it. I have not made buttercream with flour in it but I do want to try as your cupcakes look yummy. Thank you.


    • says

      Hi, Isabella! I don’t. I’m just starting to make videos, and I haven’t had a chance to make one for this recipe yet. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask! =)


  8. jessica says

    My nephew is really getting into baking and I’m looking for recipes for other butter cream frosting cause he uses the Wilton buttercream and it’s too sweet and hard.. this recipe looks good. But I had a question. Does the TV Stand for tea spoon or tablespoons??

  9. Dianna says

    This is my all time favorite buttercream ever! I could seriously eat a bowl of it on my own. I’m wanting to make this into a strawberry cream type filling. Any suggestions? THANK YOU!

    • says

      I would guess that adding a strawberry flavor instead of the vanilla or part of the vanilla would be the easiest way. Mashed fruit would be delicious, but I’m not sure what that would do to the consistency. If you try it, please let me know how it turns out! =)

  10. Sarah says

    Hello, I would love to try this recipe and I’m curious as to The color of the icing. I’m a beginner and since this calls for butter I’m assuming it will not be white icing, is that correct?
    Looking to get a white icing.
    any ideas?
    Thank you!

  11. Bishara says

    Hey I want to make this frosting, but I don’t have butter I only have ‘I cant believe its not butter ‘ and I think that is a margarine . What would happen if I used that instead of real butter .

    • says

      It’s not going to work the same way. The water content is different in spreads like ICBINB, which is one of the reasons that they’re soft and spreadable. Sorry, but your best bet would be to wait until you have real butter for this one.

  12. Celess says

    Thank you so much! Best frosting I’ve ever made and I’ve made A LOT!! I cut the recipe in half and it worked perfectly. I’ll be using this recipe for ever and always. Most people don’t understand the difference between a gourmet cupcake and regular cupcakes. This frosting is gourmet all the way! Light, fluffy, with a bit of sweetness, not too buttery or lard-tasting that the top of your mouth is greasy…. absolutely wonderful! Used this on my dark chocolate, cookie dough filled cupcakes today, and my favorite part is the frosting now that I’ve found this recipe! ;) Thank you. XOXO

  13. Beckie says

    I used this frosting when I made my son’s classroom birthday cupcakes. My son came home and said the class unanimously decided I made the best cupcakes ever! Uh-oh, sorry other Mom’s. :)

  14. QUENTIN says

    HI KATE! I absolutely love this frosting, I have a coffee shop and use this on all my cupcakes. It is very, very good. I added another couple of spoons of flour to the milk and whisked it a bit longer, it makes for a bit thicker frosting and does not separate, My cupcakes are kept at room temp all day long and looks and tastes lovely! also if you have extra keep it in the fridge and Wisk it again as soon as it is at room temp the next tome you need to use it. what a wonderful frosting, I also use different flavorings and colors !

  15. Myriam says

    OMG!! This buttercream is amazing! It was quite easy to make, I’ve divided the recipe in 3 to have 3 shades of pink and made an ombre cake. It was not only beautiful but DELICIOUS! Not too sweet, which was perfect! Will definitely stick to this recipe for the future! Thank you so much!

  16. says

    Hi I saw there were a LOT of comments but this was from years ago so sorry if it’s a repeat. I’m just wondering if this icing consistency is stiff enough to pipe/ design a cake. Like Not just to ice it, but to do stuff on top. Thanks!
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        • says

          I’m not sure! It would certainly be richer. I know that whipping cream whips up differently milk, but I’ve never tried it. If you do, please let me know how it turns out!

  17. Erin says

    I love this frosting so much. I’ve made it numerous times since finding the recipe 2 years ago. I have had separation issues but I love it so much I just try again and normally the 2nd time works. Have you ever tried to make it ahead of time, freeze it, thaw it, and use? Just curious if that would work or if the separation might occur? Hope to hear back from you! Thanks for such a great recipe!

      • Denise says

        I was making test cakes for a wedding and I needed to see how this would do being made, frozen, rewhipped then used. It worked great! I brought it to almost room temp first then whipped it. It did separate at first but after a few mins it came together. It may have been just a touch looser than before but I live in Hawaii so that could have been a temperature thing. I’m using this as the cake filling with a bunch of coconut flakes in it :D

  18. Dawn says

    Oh my!!! This is the best frosting I have ever made :) This will be the frosting of choice from now on. Thank you for sharing!

  19. Cat says

    I have been searching for and trying many buttercream frosting recipes over the last couple of years, trying to find the perfect, fluffy, not too sweet icing. I had about given up, then I found this recipe. There are not enough adjectives in the English language to describe our PERFECT this icing is – my search has finally ended! The heated milk with flour gave me pause, as did the granulated sugar rather than confectioners; but not to worry – the mixture cam together into a beautiful, fluffy, glorious bowl of delicious buttercream frosting. Try this – you will not be sorry!!

    • says

      I’m so glad that you liked it! Thank you for taking the time to come back and comment! =)

      PS – I had the same concerns the first time I made it, but it’s a family favorite in our house.

  20. Shelly says

    I made this last night and it was good,but tonight mixed it again to ice my cake and it didn’t whip up well at all runny

  21. heather says

    Hello! Just wondering how many cupcakes one batch of icing will cover? I have to make 60 cupcakes for a bridal shower. I was making my shopping list for supplies and wanted some idea of how many batches I will need to make. Thanks!

  22. Kaitlin says

    Just made this for some gluten free cupcakes I made for my husband to surprise him. It’s delicious! I used a gluten free flour and they turned out perfectly. Thank you for this recipe!

  23. Kirsten says

    I tried this out, and while it did taste yummy, I couldn’t get the recipe to hold. I kept whipping it and it still kept separating. I made sure everything was at the right temperature but no luck. Bummer because I wasted all that butter and sugar! I wish they would offer pinterest insurance to replace all my supplies for failed recipes lol

    • says

      There are a couple few why it may have separated. One is the temperature – either of the milk mixture or using butter that’s too warm. Another could be that there was too much liquid in the milk mixture. The third is that the mixer didn’t have enough power to really whip it. I hope that helps!

    • aine says

      Hi Kristen,
      Just an fyi, for droppings that may split or crudle on you. Scrape all contents into a Tupperware container and place in the freezer for 15-30 minutes!
      Remove, plac. Back in a clean cold mixing bowl, add the balloon whisk attachment and whip for 10-20 mins! Your ingredients should be perfect and your splitting issues should be resolved. No wasted ingredients!


  24. Bobye, Grove City, OH says

    I have made this frosting several times and really have had no problems. The last time I made it I cooked the flour and milk to a very thick consistency, thicker than pancake batter. I then let it come to room temperature or cooler and mixed the flour mixture into the butter and sugar which were creamed very well. I’m wondering for those who have separation issues, if the flour paste has not come to room temperature, and being warmer than the butter and sugar, it may be melting the butter. Just a thought. The flavor of the this butter cream is delish and not tooooooooo sweet, which I like. I’ve used this as a crumb coat for a Ho Ho cake and let it set up before pouring the ganache over the cake and it works fine. I ALWAYS use skewers to hold my layers together as well. Better to be safe than sorry and that way you can use LOTS of icing. LOL. I hope you all enjoy this icing as I think it’s the best.

    • says

      Yes, making sure that the flour mixture has cooled is key to getting the frosting to work. Otherwise, it starts to melt the butter, and it doesn’t whip properly.

      Thanks for the tips!

  25. u says

    Thanks for a great recipe! I justfinished making it.I have a wedding cake for 100 people due tomorrow night. I have made sugar flowers to go on this cake. No fondant. My question is: is this safe for 48 hours? It will be an indoor event. Its 60 degrees outside. This will be a large professional cake so Iam nervous about trying on my cake. It does taste delicious but it doesnt help too much if it acts like a whipped cream and not much like a real buttercream. It just seems like it works great on “at home: cakes. I want to be wrong though, but it doesnt seem like you have experienced variations much. My biggest question is will iy holland up for a wedding indoors. If so, how many hours will it hold up on a decorated caken. I just dont want the cake to go flat at the reception. What do you think? I would love to hear from anyone who used this on a wedding cake. If someone has had luck, this would be the go to recipe! Please help!

    • says

      Since it’s for a professional cake, I don’t feel comfortable telling you whether I think it will work or not.

      If anyone else has any thoughts, please feel free to share them!

  26. Caitlyn Clarke says

    I made this icing today. I was a bit worried because it called for flour but I wanted a light fluffy buttercream, so I figured why not? I am so thrilled I tried it! It’s exactly what I was looking for! The recipe turned out perfect. As long as you follow the instructions and use an kitchenId mixer, I don’t know how it could get messed up. This is my go to recipe now. Thanks!

    • says

      I was, too! I don’t know that I ever would have tried it because of that if I hadn’t gotten the recipe from a family member.

      I’m so glad that you liked it! =) I’ve made a few different versions of it, and it’s my go-to, too. Thanks for taking the time to come back and leave a comment!

  27. Kristin says

    Made this frosting 2 days ago for my son’s birthday cupcakes. BEST FROSTING EVER!!!!! It was 80 degrees and humid here in TX on Saturday and the frosting held up wonderfully….even held up just fine in the fridge without separating. I had no problems whatsoever. I used my stand mixer, and I think the key is mix, mix, and mix some more. I did have problems with the whipped chocolate buttercream recipe and ended up having to make the regular chocolate buttercream (which was also super yummy and the kids loved it)…but the vanilla was AMAZING!!!!!!!

    • says

      I’m so glad that you liked it! If you don’t mind me asking, what issue did you have with the chocolate? Also, I’m so jealous of your weather there! Again, so glad that you liked it! =)

      • Kristin says

        Not sure where I went wrong, but when I poured the chocolate mixture into the butter mixture, I just couldn’t get it to the right consistency. It stayed very liquidy, and the more I mixed it, the thinner it got – you could also see all of the sugar granules in it. I was in a rush that morning trying to get ready for the party, so maybe I didn’t let it cool enough. I plan on trying it again, just for the heck of it. Don’t be too jealous of our weather, by the way….it is back down to 30 this week :(

        • says

          I hope it works out better the next time! It can be tricky because, like you said, if it isn’t cool enough, the frosting doesn’t whip up right.

          Sad! That sound really cold for Texas! =(

  28. Doris says

    Thanks for the recipe! This is by far the best frosting I’ve ever made! But just wondering, can I replace the butter with butter flavored shortening? will the frosting hold up better in warm weathers?

    • says

      I’m so glad that you liked it! I’ve never tried using butter flavored shortening. It might help, but I’m not sure how it would work or taste. If you try it, I would be interested to hear how it works.

    • Denise says

      Hi! I live in Hawaii and was concerned about the heat and humidity so I used half veg shortening (wanted it to be very white as it was for a bridal shower), turned out wonderfully!! Silky and delicious! It also piped beautifully! I’m sure butter flavored Crisco would yield the same results. :)

  29. Tina's Totally Nuts says

    After realizing last night that I had no confectioner’s sugar to make a traditional buttercream frosting for the cupcakes I made on a whim, I came across your recipe. This is very similar to a frosting popular in the 70’s-80’s that everyone raved about, but I couldn’t find the cookbook it was in (probably found its way to a thrift shop in the midst of many moves). I also don’t buy milk, but usually have either almond or coconut milk on hand, so used my almond milk. Even though I whisked the flour into the cold milk, adding a little at a time, it took a long time to blend out most of the fine lumps. After cooling, which probably wasn’t long enough having read some of your older comments, I added the mixture to the butter and sugar and beat for quite awhile (even dragged out my old Kitchenaid stand mixer for this), I found the mixture softer than I would have wished for. So, my question would be could the almond milk be more difficult for blending flour into, and why it was a softer consistency? But, considering it was late in the evening, I may not have allowed it to cool completely. I was able to pipe it (not my forte) but would have preferred a bit more structure. Nonetheless, it is a very good frosting, and fails I put to my own abilities/substitutions. I also have come to the conclusion that to get the best consistency and flavor for buttercream frostings is to use a stand mixer and beat for a long time, as your recipe noted 5 minutes. Beating with a hand mixer could get tiresome and cause one to quit before the best quality is achieved.
    Sidenote: I did add a smidgeon of peppermint extract and a few drops of red food coloring, which would be great on chocolate cupcakes, but overpowered the delicate vanilla flavoring of my cupcakes.

    • says

      The almond milk might be. I bake with almond milk sometimes, but I’ve never tried it in this recipe. Sifting the flour over the milk might help with this as well. I would guess that the softer consistency came more from it not cooling enough than from the almond milk, but that’s just a guess. Yes, a stand mixer is much easier to use and has the extra power to really whip this frosting.

      I have to say that I have yet to find a peppermint extract that I really like. If you know of a good one, I’d be glad to know which kind it is. I’ve tried a couple, and they reminded me of mouthwash.

  30. says

    I made brownies and then made this icing to put on top along with crumbled up oreos :) YUUUUMMM!!! first time making the icing and it was AMAZING! everyone went crazy :)

  31. Carlee says

    So I made this frosting and it turned out okay but did taste good though. I put it in the fridge b because I wasn’t ready to use it. When I took it out and gave it a mix it had the consistency of cottage cheese. I don’t know what to do!!!

    • says

      So, it separated when you put it in the fridge? I’m not sure if it looks like cottage cheese where it went wrong. The only thing I could suggest is to try whipping it. I hope that helps!

  32. Hala says

    Hello Kate.
    I tried this recipe yesterday night and the taste is unbelievable (I always hated the taste of regular crusting buttercream), by the time I was done it was really late so I just put it in the container and off the fridge. Today noon I got it out, left it at room temperature for nearly an hour and then I piped it.
    Since I was in doubt, I halved the recipe… I did not see that the recipe calls for salted butter so I bought unsalted butter but even thought the taste was not over sweet.

    Although the taste is so delicious it didn’t pipe very well and now after couple of hours I can see it’s a bit separating and it didn’t hold as it’s supposed to be as if it needed more incorporation. I read all comments but can someone please tell me how to make it thicker? shall I add more flour? shall I keep the flour-milk mixture boil more?. In one of the comments I can read that to thicken add 2T room temperature butter, I am afraid this will make it even more runny. Perhaps shall I keep beating the cream more than 5 min?

    Thank you a lot for a wonderful recipe. Perhaps next time the texture will be different.
    P.S: in your comment on 4/10/2014 you mentioned that you will be posting another version for this recipe, can you please share the link if you have done so?

  33. Cynthia Albright says

    Hi Kate!!! Wondering would you have a diabetic version of the Butter Creme Frosting? It’s very hard to find sugar free frosting and I would love to try this frosting . if you could help me I would be eternally greatful!!! Thank you and Bless you!!!♥♥♥

    • says

      Hi! I’m sorry, but I have a pretty limited knowledge of sugar substitutes. So, I’m not sure how something like Splenda would work in this recipe. If I do get any comments or emails about it, I’m happy to share them!

  34. Abbie says

    Hi! Help!!!
    I have tried this a few times, and each time the flour/milk mixture gets little timy clumps that do not melt away. I have tried sidting the flour, cooking longer, whipping it continuously with a wire whisk while it is cooking. What am I doing wrong?

    • says

      I’m sorry that you’re having trouble with it! When you mix the flour and the milk together at the beginning, is it combined before it gets warm? The first thing that I thought of is that it might be getting warm before it’s well-combined, which could make it lumpy.

      • Abbie says

        Yes! That must be it.. I didn’t realize I needed to combine the flour into cold milk and mixed it thoroughly before it started to heat up. Going to give a fourth try tomorrow! Thank you so much.. Funny reading one of the comments below, as I too am making this to top a rainbow cake for my little one’s 2nd bitthday :)

  35. Nina says


    i am trying to make a rainbow cake for my son’s 1st bday and would like to use this recipe for the frosting. I will try to make it the night before the party. Would this good to put between the layers of the cake and to cover the rest of the cake? I’m thinking it’s the flour that will do the trick :) This will be my first time making a cake.


    • says

      I’m going to be totally honest with you – I think this frosting is best made the day you’re serving it. It can be temperamental because it can separate if the flour mixture isn’t cooked long enough (or chilled sufficiently). Don’t get me wrong -it is a great frosting, and I think it would work just fine between the layers and as a cover for the rest of the cake.

      If you have any questions along the way, I’m happy to help you out with it! Good luck!! =)

      • nina says

        that’s true! I’m also scared that it will not hold since we are in Texas and it’s gonna be really hot for this weekend party.. and the cake will be out or on the table the entire time. I would really love to try this recipe this weekend but maybe some other day :) thanks for the tip!!!

        • says

          That’s probably a good call! I made some the other day (it’s very hot and humid here right now), and it doesn’t do as well in weather like that.
          I hope you enjoy it if you try it, and if you have any questions at that point, please feel free to ask! =)

  36. Anonymous says

    Hi! I was just wondering if whether or not this frosting recipe would work fine for mixing into cake for cake pops? Please let me know!

  37. Bailey says

    Would heavy cream work in place of the milk? I bought some for a different recipe, but after reading further it was not recommended for piping onto cupcakes (which is what I need it for).

    • says

      I’ve never used heavy cream in place of the milk in this recipe, so I’m not sure how well it would work. I’m sorry that I can’t give you more of an answer on that, but if you try it, I’d be interested to hear how it turns out. Good luck! =)

      • Bailey says

        I tried it with the whipping cream (not heavy cream, oops!) it tasted absolutely amazing, but did NOT hold up in the heat. It melted and separated very quickly. I would definitely make this again, but use milk. Even my husband liked it though, and he is never eats sweets.

  38. Tara says

    This recipe is great! It has the perfect amount of sweetness to it and a great whipped texture. At first I was afraid because it looked super runny, but after I let it whip for longer it came out light and fluffy. For anyone wondering about piping, it comes out great with any of the wilton tips. I used it to pipe a swirl frosting on cupcakes. And just like everyone else said, its extremely smooth and melts in your mouth even though it uses granulated sugar!! Thanks for the recipe!

    • says

      I’m so glad you liked it! Also, thanks for the tips about piping! I don’t do much decorating, so it’s nice to hear from people who have more experience in that area. =)

    • Barbara says

      I know this was over a year ago, but I’m making this icing and need to do a few decorations with different tips (shell border, grass). Is there anything I can do to stabilize it and/or make it thicker? Meringue powder? The party is early Saturday, and I have to do the cake tonight and tomorrow (I’m a busy home-baker with 3 tiny kids…). I’ll also have to drive to deliver it over 45 minutes in 90+ degree heat (have AC in car). Suggestions? I’ll be checking back in!!

      (This does taste extremely great! I have used it to make a textured “stucco-look” cake. It seemed slightly melty in 85 degree heat, so I’m slightly worried.)

      • says

        Oh, wow! I’m sorry, but I don’t know about using meringue powder. I’m going to publish this in the hopes that someone else will have an idea for you. Best of luck!

  39. Tempest says

    I’m looking to use this frosting to decorate my daughter’s fourth birthday cake. I want to do those oh so cutesy “ruffle” style cakes, and was wondering does this frosting hold up well to piping such things? Thanks so much : )

    • says

      I do very little piping, so I can’t really speak from experience. I have heard that it holds up well, but I’m not sure what types of piping it was used for. Good luck! =)

    • Lisa says

      I found this same recipe on Pioneer Woman’s website years ago, and yes, it does extremely well with piping. It holds up great and does not fall if you leave it refrigerated overnight.

  40. Courtney Conner says

    BEST icing EVER! It is so yummy. Just don’t make it starting at 8:30 at night!! I’m tired! So worth staying up to make it.

    • says

      I refrigerate the leftovers. I’m not sure whether it would be ok to leave it out or not, but, to be safe, I refrigerate it.

    • says

      You can. I think that it can taste sort of flat with unsalted butter, so you’ll want to increase the amount of salt in the frosting. Good luck!

  41. Kristen says


    I love this recipe. It is so delicious and not too sweet. Perfect for a wedding cake. Is this recipe easily doubled? Thanks

    • says

      Thanks! It makes so much that I’ve never needed to double it, so I’m not sure how well it works. If you try it, I’d love to hear how it turns out. Good luck! =)

      • Kate says

        I just made this frosting for my Banana Cake! Awesome! Everyone loved it! Can you freeze or refrigerate the extra? Thanks so much for sharing!

        • says

          I’m so glad you liked it! =) I have refrigerated the extra, and it was fine the next day. I haven’t tried freezing it, though, so I’m not sure how well that would work.

        • Lisa says

          I’ve refrigerated it for up to 4 days with no problems. Haven’t tried freezing it, but if you got it in an airtight container, I bet it would be okay.

  42. Claire says

    The first time I made this recipe it worked wonderfully! It spread beautifully and didn’t separate. But then later when I made it again, the butter and sugar kept separating! I made it again and it separated AGAIN. I have no idea what I did wrong. Some factors may have been that it was warmer out the second time I made it and I maybe wasn’t as patient about the flour/milk cooling down; i stuck it in the fridge to cool faster. Any thoughts as to why it failed the second time I made it? I love this recipe and want to make it again, but I don’t know how to fix it. Any ideas?

    • says

      I have a couple ideas. When it’s hot and humid in my kitchen, I have to really make sure to cook plenty of liquid out of the flour mixture. It needs to get to more of a thick, paste-like consistency. If it still looks watery, then you’ll want to keep cooking/stirring it.

      Also, yes, if the milk/flour mixture isn’t cool enough, it does cause separation. I’ve found that if it’s even just on the warm side, the frosting doesn’t come out as well.

      I hope that helps! If you have any other questions, please let me know.

  43. Amanda says

    I just made this icing and it is delicious! It is so smooth and creamy. I couldn’t believe it wasn’t gritty because of the granulated sugar! I made a test run for my daughter’s 2nd birthday next month. I made a funfetti vanilla cake but I think I want a flavored buttercream rather than vanilla to add a punch. I have been searching lemon buttercream recipes but I would really like to use your recipe but make it into lemon. Do you know how I could do this? Also, I was going to frost a two layer cake with this icing and also do some piping for a border. Does your recipe hold up well for piping? Sorry for the questions!!

    • says

      I’m so glad that you like it! To make lemon buttercream, I’d try substituting pure lemon flavor for part or all of the vanilla extract. You may have to play around a little with the amount to get the flavor you’re looking for, but that should do the trick. You could also grate in a little lemon zest to add some extra zing.

      I don’t do a lot of cake decorating, but I have heard from people who have successfully piped with it.

      I hope that helps, and if you have any other questions, please don’t hesitate to ask!

      • Amanda says

        So just pure lemon extract? Do you suggest adding any lemon juice? Or just lemon extract and lemon zest?

        • says

          If I was making it, I would just use pure lemon extract and maybe some zest.

          I would have two concerns with using lemon juice. First, I would be worried that it might cause the frosting to curdle or separate. Second, since the extracts are usually so concentrated, you get a lot of flavor with a smaller amount of liquid. When I’ve made lemon cookies, I usually have to use somewhere around 1/4 cup or so of fresh lemon juice to get a good lemon flavor. That much extra liquid might make the frosting too wet.

          Hope that helps, and I’d be interested to hear how it turns out. Good luck!

  44. Raquel says

    I was skeptical about this frosting because of the flour. I had never heard of flour in frosting. I am so glad that I went ahead and tried this recipe anyways! (I thought to myself if it doesn’t taste good I can always throw it away) It is DELICIOUS! The flour and milk mixture doesn’t taste good, Lol! But together with the sugar and butter it is light and not overbearingly sweet. I did mix each mixture separately for 4 minutes each then put them together and mixed for another 4 minutes. I also added a touch more vanilla. Thank you for sharing this recipe, it will be in my recipe box for years to come!

    • says

      Between the flour and the granulated sugar, I was skeptical, too! I’m so glad that you enjoyed it! =)
      p.s. I have another version of this recipe that I’ll be posting on Monday. If you liked this recipe, you might enjoy that one, too.

  45. Lucas says

    Looks lovely , can you store the cake in room temperature or does it need fridge with this frosting ? looks lush :)))

    • says

      Thanks! I left it out for a few hours, but I’d store leftovers in the fridge. I’m not sure whether you have to or not, but I’d err on the side of caution.

  46. Kim messer says

    Hi, I’m looking to make this into a lemon buttercream any suggestions. I don’t have lemon extract. I wanted to keep the vanilla extract and add some lemon juice and zest. How much should I put do u think?

    • says

      This is just a guess, but I’d probably start with 2 tablespoons of lemon juice. I’m not sure whether it will cause any separation, but that’s what I would start with and then go from there. Good luck! =)

  47. Christine says

    For St Pattys day I mixed with Baileys Irish cream coffee creamer and some rum extract to bring out the Baileys. Then I added some left over hot fudge pudding I used for filling the hot cocoa cupcakes. Woah I got a quick lesson on separating and emulsion! So I added more butter and kept whipping, after 5 mins my beautiful buttercream was returning. Not only did it taste just like Baileys it looked like Baileys!! I topped the cupcakes with plain vanilla buttercream, then layered the Baileys, then a quick topping of real whipped cream, some drizzled caramel, and a green white chocolate shamrock. These were a huge hit at work. Your receipe has brought much happiness to my coworkers!! Thank you again!!

  48. T. Davis says

    Wow! Made this with butter pecan coffee creamer instead of milk, also added maple syrup instead of vanilla extract. I used it to frost butter pecan cupcakes. This was the best buttercream I’ve ever had. So light, fluffy, and flavorful but not too sweet. Thanks so much for sharing one that uses regular sugar. I can’t wait to try it as a vanilla buttercream. This is my new go to buttercream. Do you know of a way to add cream cheese to it without messing it up?
    Thanks so much again!

  49. Clover says

    Hey there,
    great looking frosting…I want to make it for my birthday!
    Can I use a gluten-free flour, possibly?

    • says

      I’m sorry, but I’ve never used gluten-free flour, so I’m not familiar enough with it to even make an educated guess. If you try it, I would be interested to hear how it turns out (as, I’m sure, would many other people).

      • says

        You might want to try cornstarch (or potato starch). Usually, half as much cornstarch will thicken the same as the full amount of flour – so try 3 T to start. Be sure to stir the cornstarch into COLD milk – it will lump up if the milk is too warm to start out. I’ve never used cornstarch for this kind of frosting, but it usually a good substitute for flour when used as a thickener. Good luck!

  50. Carey says

    I’ve been searching for a good buttercream for years with poor results–until I found this! Hands down the best frosting, very adaptable, very easy to put together , and scalable, too! THANK YOU!!

  51. Christine says

    When I first tasted it I thought “Yes! This is the one! I finally found an amazing recipe”!
    The flavor has that little punch to it that make other butter creams seem bland. I did alternate it a bit just for this one occasion I added 1/4c white chocolate macadamia nut coffee creamer in place of 1/4c of milk.

    I had no problems with separation and it held up well for piping. I used it on pink lemonade mini cupcakes.

    With all butter cream frosting’s I use this process. The sugar mixture needs to be mixed up to 15 mins to make sure the grit of the sugar is dissolved. This time I blended for 5 mins then let it sit while I piped lemon filling in the cupcakes and came back to it and blended some more. I think that reduced the blending time.
    I also whipped the cooled flour mixture before adding it to the sugar mixture so all of the lumps were blended out. I think the lumps tend to slip through the sugar/butter mixture and it takes longer to mix out if you don’t.
    (I like my flour mixture a little thicker so the frosting pipes well.)
    I brought 48 of these cupcakes to work for a special Olympics fundraiser, every single one sold! Thank you Kate for this amazing frosting recipe and all of the other great ones you have posted, I can’t wait to try them.

  52. says

    I just made this frosting for a Valentine’s Day cake and O.M.G. it is sooooooo delicious! I find typical buttercream frostings to be a bit too sweet, heavy and boring. I can usually taste the butter and powdered sugar and not much else. With this recipe the flavors are much more light and complex. The texture is fabulous! This will be my go-to buttercream from here on out. So glad I found your recipe in Pinterest! Thank you!

  53. theresa krier says

    hi, i’ve never made a frosting with flour before, can’t wait to try it. i this a hand me down recipe? thanks

    • says

      Sure! You could try substituting part or all of the vanilla extract with maple flavor. You may have to play around a little with the amount of maple flavor, but that will give you a maple flavored buttercream. Good luck! =)

    • says

      I haven’t ever used it for a wedding cake. I’m sorry that I don’t have any first-hand experience with it, but I’ve had people tell me that it held up well for them. They’ve also said that it worked well for piping it, too. I hope that helps! =)

  54. Michelle says

    Hi, I noticed that you have the chocolate version of this with corn starch instead of flour. Have you ever tried this one with corn starch? Sometimes I notice a floury taste and I wondered if the cornstarch would have less flavor of it’s own.

    • says

      No, I haven’t tried this one with corn starch. I’ve never noticed the flour, but I could see how that wouldn’t be very pleasant. If you do try it, please let me know how it works out. =)

  55. lex says

    I was wondering if you think this recipe would work as a salted caramel whipped buttercream? if i add caramel sauce to it, would i need to reduce sugar? thanks!

    • says

      I’m not sure. I think it could work, but I think it would take quite a bit of tinkering to get the consistency right.

      As far as the sugar/caramel question, I think you would want to reduce the amount of sugar so that it’s not too sweet. However, granulated sugar pulls moisture from other ingredients, resulting in a drier end product; whereas, the caramel sauce would be adding in a lot more moisture to the frosting. So, I would be afraid that you would end up with something that’s goopy if you just swapped them straight across. So, like I said, I think it could work, but it would take some trial and error.

      I do have a recipe for a salted caramel buttercream. If you’re interested, here is the link – http://www.ihearteating.com/2013/11/04/salted-caramel-buttercream-frosting-recipe/.

      I hope that helps!

  56. Ker Ryn says

    Hi there!
    Does this frosting taste like butter? Or does it taste very sweet?
    ‘Cause I have been trying tons of recipe for frosting, many of them turned out with the butter taste, while some came out just really sweet.

    • says

      This frosting is sweet, though I don’t think it’s overly sweet, but I guess that’s a matter of preference. It tastes like vanilla with a hint of butter. I wouldn’t say that it has a strong buttery taste, though.

      If you find the taste of butter to be too much in buttercreams, you might like a frosting that uses a mix of shortening and butter instead.

  57. AnnC says

    I actually thought the T’s were teaspoons but the frosting still worked great! Just manipulated mine a little bit. The frosting came out perfectly. Thanks for the recipe!

  58. Sam says

    This is the same recipe a lady from my church makes and gave me. Itreally is the best frosting ever. Only difference is I use 4tbsp of flour to 1 cup sugar/butter and have found it works and tastes a little better using cold butter.

    • says

      There are two things that you could try. First, you could try chilling it, and then whip it for a couple more minutes. If that doesn’t thicken it up sufficiently, you could try adding a little more softened butter and then beat that in. I hope that helps!

    • says

      No, unfortunately, it doesn’t hold up well if it’s made ahead of time. I found that after a day in the fridge that there was some separation. The taste was still fine, and it stirred back together. However, I don’t think it would have worked well for piping at that point. Please let me know if you have any other questions.

    • josee says

      Well, actually, mine held and could be piped. The milk/flour mixture will tend to separate if you do not cook it long enough…..

  59. Kellie says

    I was wondering if this frosting hold up well like the buttercream frosting with the powdered sugar. I have an occasion coming up that I will be baking a cake for and none of our family has ever really cared for the greasy sweetness of the other, The party will be 3rd week of June and just wanted to know how well it held up to the heat.

    • kateheartseating says

      I’m not sure. Every time I’ve taken this frosting to an event, it’s always been indoors. Since the base of this frosting is mainly cooked milk and butter, it may not do well for a long period outside in the heat. This frosting does start to separate after a day or so in the fridge. It still tastes fine, but it doesn’t look as appealing at that point. The heat may cause the same thing to happen, but I’m just guessing on that. I’m sorry that I can’t give you a more definite answer. If you try it, please let me know. I’m sure other people will have that question as the weather warms up.

  60. says

    i am looking for a lemon cake NOT made with butter,it is so hard to find cake recipes made with crisco oil,i would love your help in this matter, thank you so much

    • kateheartseating says

      Hi! I don’t have a recipe, but I found one from a chef who always has good recipes. I’ll email it to you. =)

    • kateheartseating says

      That’s a great question! I usually make a small batch for us to eat that day or a large batch if I’m taking it to a get together, so I haven’t had any leftovers when I’ve made this frosting. I’m not sure whether it absolutely has to be refrigerated or not, but I would if you have left just to be on the safe side.

        • josee says

          It’s such a good recipe, thanks for sharing it. I really don’t like the regular frosting, you know with powdered sugar, too sweet for me and my son. But I gotta say, we really enjoyed this one, I will definitely be making it again, and again…lol
          And I forgot to say in my previous comment that I did not leave the cake in a room that was very hot, my house temp is about 70-72 degrees…..With the amount of butter, I would not bring it outside on a hot summer day!

        • says

          Thanks so much!! I am so glad that you enjoyed it! I really love it, too, and I’m really glad to hear that you do, too! =)

  61. turnips 2 tangerines says

    These cupcakes look delicious:) Dropping by from Tried and True Recipe Party! Lynn @ Turnips 2 Tangerines

  62. Yaz says

    I’m.only guessing but are the measuremens tablespoons and cups? I’m.in the UK and just wondered so I can convert. Thanks

      • Lynsie says

        When you say 1 1/2 cup, does that mean one and a half cups or is it one half of a cup? Same question with the 1 1/2 T – and is T a tablespoon or teaspoon? Since the entire recipe is using this formula I didn’t want to guess and mess it up. Thanks.

        • kateheartseating says

          It’s 1 cup + 1/2 cup (one and one half cups). T= tablespoon, and tsp. = teaspoon. Sorry for the confusion!! I try to write the recipes as clearly as possible, but sometimes I end up making them as clear as mud. Please let me know if you have any more questions! =)

  63. [email protected] Plaid and Paisley Kitchen says

    That is a sweet comment about your “other Mother” I am a step mom and it is not an easy roll to play. Also what a great looking frosting! I would love to have you come link up at my Show Me Your Plaid Monday’s! http://www.pandpkitchen.com/2012/12/30/show-me-your-plaid-mondays-4/

    • kateheartseating says

      Thanks! I’d imagine that it’s not very easy. I’ve been blessed with two great step-parents, so I have to take every opportunity to let them know that I love them now because I wasn’t always the easiest kid. Thanks for the invite! I will definitely come to your link party!!

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